Change in Plans

We're not telling everybody, mainly because we sound so undecided and wishy-washy about it all, but I figure that the only people that read this blog are close friends anyway and I want to share.  Elvis is the one that doesn't want to tell anybody, but it gets difficult dodging the questions or making up stories about why we had to "reschedule" our appointment with the adoption agency, etc.  And, truth be told, I don't want those who have been so supportive and resourceful in our initial inquiry into adoption to feel let down by our decision to change gears, because...

We've decided to go the route of fertility treatments again.  Mainly, I think, IVF.  Elvis is really determined to exhaust all of our options at having a biological family before moving to adoption to start our family, and since I just want so badly to be a mom, I am willing to go through the processes needed to see if we can conceive our own children.

Stay tuned for updates!  We had our first appt today